have this friend who is so incredibly beautiful I find myself staring! If I were a guy, I'd be asking her out on a date quick smart because surely a girl like that couldn't stay single for long, right? Wrong!

This friend of mine is single and hasn't had a real boyfriend in years. I find it unfathomable that you guys out there are foolish enough to let her slip by!

Not only is she a goddess, but she is also smart, sexy, funny, loves to party and also loves a quiet night in.

Her family and friends mean the world to her, she's genuine, supportive, has a great career she's seriously the full package.

How is it possible that she is single? I started to ponder this and wondered: is it possible to be too hot?

Think about it if you're a hot chick, guys are attracted to you. But what is attracting them? Your intelligence? Your great conversational skills? No, your hotness. So what is a guy thinking when he sees a hot chick? He's not really thinking about debating the latest political

policies with you over a glass of wine, he's thinking simply about sex. What would it be like to sleep with that hot chick?

So, although my gorgeous friend attracts a few guys and gets a few dates, she is finding that most of them are only after one thing and if she doesn't let them get it they don't bother calling again.

If they'd just take the time to get to know her they'd realise they'd stumbled upon the gold pot at the end of the rainbow ... and if they played it right, they'd get to sleep with her, too!

Really, guys, open your eyes. Sometimes the sexy, hot chicks have so much more to offer ... if you'd bother to look past the superficial beauty, you might see the beauty within, too.

JD